From Homemade Confetti to Nonna’s Blessing: Family, Food, and Folklore in Southern Italian Weddings
Alessandra 24/04/2025 0
In Southern Italy, a wedding isn’t just a union of two people—it’s the joyous fusion of families, traditions, and deeply rooted cultural rituals. Particularly in the Amalfi and Cilento regions, weddings are steeped in folklore and family involvement, where every detail, from the food to the final blessing, is an expression of heritage and love
Family Comes First
Family plays a central role in Southern Italian weddings. It’s common for multiple generations to be involved in the planning and execution of the event. Nonna (the grandmother) is often seen as the guardian of tradition, and her blessing carries profound emotional weight. Her role might include helping to prepare symbolic dishes, offering heartfelt advice, or even gifting a treasured family heirloom to the bride.
Homemade Confetti: A Sweet Tradition
Confetti in Italy doesn’t mean colorful paper—it refers to sugar-coated almonds, a symbol of the bittersweet nature of marriage. In the South, it’s not unusual for families to make their own confetti, especially in small towns and villages. The almonds are carefully packaged in delicate tulle and tied with ribbon, often in odd numbers to represent indivisibility and good luck.
The Power of Food and Community
Food is the heart of any Italian celebration, and weddings are no exception. In the Amalfi and Cilento regions, wedding menus reflect local abundance and traditions. Dishes may include handmade pasta, fresh seafood, slow-cooked meats, and family recipes passed down through generations. Often, the women of the family come together days before the wedding to prepare traditional sweets like struffoli, mostaccioli, or cannoli.
It’s also common to have a pre-wedding dinner known as "la serenata," where the groom serenades the bride and both families enjoy a casual meal together. This moment strengthens the familial bond and honors the community aspect of marriage.
Symbolic Gestures and Blessings
Beyond the visible celebrations, Southern Italian weddings are full of symbolic gestures. A bride might wear a red ribbon under her dress to ward off the "malocchio" (evil eye), or carry a small image of a saint for protection. Before the ceremony, it’s traditional for the parents and grandparents to give a blessing, sometimes accompanied by a prayer or a kiss on the forehead—a moment filled with love, hope, and history.
A Celebration of Culture and Continuity
These rituals and traditions are not just charming—they're meaningful. They connect the present to the past, creating a bridge between generations. For couples choosing to marry in Southern Italy, embracing these customs can turn a beautiful wedding into a truly unforgettable cultural experience.
As a wedding planner deeply rooted in the Amalfi and Cilento regions, I help couples weave these heartfelt traditions into their celebrations in a way that feels authentic, respectful, and utterly enchanting.
Ready to bring some Southern Italian magic to your big day? Let’s make it happen.
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History meets modern excellence
Get Married in a Medieval Castle where history meets modern exellence.
Castello Di Rocca Cilento
There is a magical place where history meets modern exellence, where is possible to live out a fairytale and unite in marriage somewhere where filled with enchantment and romance. This amazing location is located in Campania, 30 minutes from the train station of Agropoli (SA), precisely in an ancient medieval village.
We are delighted to announce this new, important partnership with Castello Di Rocca Cilento and pleased and obviously honoured to help you plan the wedding you’ve always dreamed of.
The Castle will open its doors on the 27th April 2023 and we will provide you with the perfect setting for your big day in this breathtaking medieval castle where the past and future are mixed in a sublime alchemy and in a whirlpool of different sensations.
This amazing Castle dates back to at least the 9th Century A.D. has been lovingly restored by the Sgueglia family who wants to welcome guests to experience an evocative real dream .
The fortress has been restored, renovated and transformed in a place suitable for extraordinary wedding party where you can find all the amenities.
Rocca Cilento Castle is divided in different areas where you can feel like a real king and a haughty queen:
INFINITY POOL & LE VELE, THE SECRET GARDEN, RIVELLINO SUNSET LOUNGE, SGUEGLIA MAIN HALL, CHESS SQUARE TERRACE, THE SKY TOWER, DE MATTEIS HALL THE COURT, HOTEL LA TORRE SUITE, WINEYARD & CANTINA.
THE INFINITY POOL & LE VELE
Live yours magic moment in the perfect area for your ceremony: The Infinity Pool is the wonderfull frame where cake cutting and have your after party .But there’s one little detail you need to know: rental entire structure allowed to play music until 4.00 a.m. Instead without rental entire structure music allowed until 11.45 p.m.
The area has an illuminated resin floor, an amphitheater, and a panoramic stairway. Adjacent to the Infinity Pool, are our iconic olive trees and oaks which lead to “Le Vele ” for a plated dinner or outdoor buffet, or aperitives.
THE RIVELLINO SUNSET LOUNGE
If you want an unforgettable aperitifs and cocktails, the right choice is the Rivellino’s Roof Sunset Bar with his breakthtaking 360 degree view of the entire gulf of Cilento and the Amalfi Coast with the charming sunsetviews of the island of Capri.
In this area is possible to have either a civil or symbolic wedding, events, parties, post dinner celebrations, or your welcome aperitif all while enjoying our sunset views. Rivellino, in fact accommodates up to350 guests.
THE SGUEGLIA MAIN HALL
The jewel of the castle is the Sgueglia’s Main Hall: the perfect combination of innovation and restoration. In the Main Hall, the history of the local stones is blended with modern materials such as our breathtaking steel and copper clad ceiling. In Main Hall you can find modern and design furniture for accommodates up to 300 guests, and panoramic windows with views of the massive Angevin Towers. The Main Hall leads directly to the Rivellino Sunset Bar.
CHESS TERRACE AND MEADOW POOL
If you like an intimate and confidential ceremony in your wedding day the Chess Terrace and Meadow Pool is another perfect area witness of the mix between the romanticism of evocative beauty of the castle. It is the ideal area for protecting the privacy of valid civil marriages, rites of other denominations or private parties. The meadow pool and the columns with hanging wisteria offer a romantic setting for intimate moments.
DE MATTEIS HALL AND THE COURT
For those who want a civil marriage, The Coat of Arms Hall & The Court will be the setting of your rite. This area takes its name from the famous Cilento painter Paolo de Matteis and can accomodates up to 150 guests. An experience full of fairy suggestions.
HOTEL LA TORRE SUITE
The accomodations at castle’s luxury boutique hotel is in the heart of the manor. The luxurious en-suite rooms are fitted with the highest quality bedding featuring Italian satin linens and duvets, newly remodeled bathrooms feature Italian stone with the finest craftsmanshipe .The La Torre Suite is in one of watch towers, and highly recommended as the perfect room for the bride and groom!
The Castle can host civil valid weddings or symbolic ceremonies in different areas:
Rivellino Sunset Lounge, De Matteis Hall The Court, The Wall & The Infinity Pool, but, if you prefer, is also possible to celebrate the religious rite in a near and ancient church.
The property provides also another evocative area where taste delicious food and beverage it is San Severino Bistrò: where taste perfect combination of food and wine . You will be actively involved in a sensory journey designed to stimulate and engage all the senses.
The Made in Italy is recognized worldwide as a synonym of good cuisine, excellent wine, refined product quality and design just for this reason the Castle offers private guided tours and wine tastings in Vineyard and Cantina. Touring historic wine cellars is a rare opportunity to see and learn about Italian and international wine production with our expert sommelier.
Customer care is demonstrated even through these details and facilities on demand like Excursions, Shows, Spa & Wellness services, Hot towel barber, Make up & Hair service, Food live show, Cooking classes.
It is an unmissable occasion, to live once in life: luxury and comfort merge perfecty, where the atmosphere will be a serene prelude to your wedding celebration to realize your dreams. Past and present in a harmonious synthesis where history meets modern exellence, where the dreams come true.
If dreams are wishes, we can make yours come true!
Alessandra 01/10/2024
One of the most romantic destinations in the World: Amalfi Coast!
Considering getting married abroad? In this moment in time what could be better than daydreaming the location of your destination wedding? Think no further and travel with your mind to one of the most romantic places in the World: Amalfi Coast!
The Amalfi Coast represents one of the most popular destinations chosen by more and more engaged couples who are being captured by its breathtaking landscapes, its sea, bright colours, the scent of citrus, the ancient culinary tradition and doubtless by its several venues, hidden corners and villas overlooking the Mediterranean. After all, everyone knows… the italian ‘I dos’ make your #destinationlove a memorable one!
Here, some of the most wonderful sites that our Coast boasts.
Amalfi
Amalfi is known as one of the most ancient Maritime Republic and over time has become symbol of the whole Coast, hence its name. The town leaves behind Lattari Mountains and looks towards the blue of its waters becoming one of the most fascinating places to visit and the most coveted destination for couples from all over the World. Its unique architecture, its narrow streets, white houses, lemon groves and the elegant Cathedral of Sant’Andrea built in Arabic-style and located in the central square of the town, make it the perfect location to live a real italian dream only a few steps from the sea.
Ravello
The tiny village of Ravello is perched on the rocky part of the Coast falling into the sea and is doubtless one of the most exclusive location located in the heart of the Amalfi Coast. Ravello with its charming villas and famous historic palaces is one of the most romantic places where celebrate your wedding among panoramic terraces, bucolic verandas, showy gardens, paths and ancient cloisters. No matter if yours will be a religious ceremony or a civil one… Ravello is the ideal setting to seal your eternal love!
Sorrento
An ancient city, forged by Greek, Roman, Norman and Aragonese culture which rises on a terrace overlooking the Gulf of Naples. Its landscapes, its well-known lemon groves, its interesting architecture and myths about mermaids have been celebrated by several poets, songwriters and painters turning it into a world-famous city. Nowadays, the beauty of its charming sites captures eyes and hearts of the engaged couples who visit it.
Positano
The small fishing village of Positano, also known as the shell of the Amalfi Coast, is a triumph of colours with its tiny houses perched on the rock hovering on each other, its white streets which host many workshops of local artisans leading to the sea. Positano hides some of the most exclusive sites and venues of this stretch of coast… gorgeous terraces covered with bougainvillea, private beaches reachable solely by boat will give you and your guests a truly magical atmosphere on your special day.
What about you? Which destination will you choose for your #destinationlove?
I can’t wait to share moments of LOVE enclosed in the beauty of the Amalfi Coast with you!
Alessandra
Alessandra 01/10/2024
Destination weddings, a dream come true
For those seeking a unique and unforgettable experience, destination weddings offer an idyllic escape from the ordinary. And now, with the latest trend, couples can add a touch of elegance and sophistication to their special day.
Destination weddings are a dream come true for couples who want to celebrate their love in a breathtaking location. From Amalfi Coast beaches to historic castles on the Cilento Coast, the possibilities are endless. The allure of destination weddings lies in the opportunity to combine the joy of getting married with an unforgettable travel experience. Whether it’s just the two of you or you’re surrounded by your closest friends and family, destination weddings offer an intimate and romantic setting that is hard to replicate elsewhere. And with the added benefit of being able to extend your stay and turn your wedding into a honeymoon, it’s no wonder that destination weddings continue to be a popular choice among couples.